Cheating is having fun without me. Because in sorrow and in joy, we must be together. This is a premeditated and deliberate crime. And what do we want for a person who has committed a crime against us? Indeed, we want this person to be punished. We begin to suffer, worry, completely in vain to look for the cause of betrayal in ourselves: as if it were we who were to blame, that a crime was committed against us.
Both can change. Those who say that male infidelity is normal, and female infidelity is a terrible sin, belong to the male sex, precisely to those representatives who are overgrown with complexes, like a summer meadow with grass. Those who say that female infidelity is normal, and male infidelity is a terrible sin, belong to the female sex, precisely to those representatives who have become covered with complexes, like the body of the opposite sex with hair.
Any normal person understands what the right is, the right to treason, everyone has. And neither sex has a greater right to cheat. More precisely, none of the sexes have it.
What’s wrong with your family? Are you not satisfied with something? Bored with sex? You’re a man! Guys are solving the problem, not running away from it! Those who run away to lick other passionate people are weaklings. Such men are weak in life. This means that the work did not work out as I wanted, life did not work out by itself, as I wanted. What efforts have you made yourself? Give the girl flowers, take care of her as if you first met. Light up your wife or girlfriend in a new way! Understand her desires, and she will give you even more! A loving woman gives her man much more than any other new in bed.
A woman wants to see a man next to her. Adult and confident. A man incapable of being strong and independent, responsible is needed only for various kinds of women-manipulators. This is a very convenient sacrifice that will never go anywhere, over which you can make fun of with impunity until it breaks completely. A woman with a normal psyche wants to see a man next to her, not a victim, not an “eternal child” and not a frightened creature, unable to take care of herself.
What’s wrong with your family? Not happy with something? Bored with sex? You’re a woman! Keeper of all the most precious! Those who run to spread their legs in front of others are prostitutes. This means that the dinner is not prepared as you wanted, which means that you look monstrously as you wanted. What efforts did you make to this? Go to the fitness room, buy beautiful dresses, lingerie. Light yourself up for your man in a new way! Awaken his interest in yourself! Intrigue him with your new self, and he will give you even more! A loving man gives his woman a lot more than any other new in bed.
A man wants to see a woman next to him. Adult and confident. A woman, unable to be strong and independent, is needed only by various kinds of perverts. This is a very convenient sacrifice that will never go anywhere, over which you can mock with impunity until it breaks completely. A man with a normal psyche wants to see a woman next to him, not a victim, not an “eternal child” and not a frightened creature unable to take care of himself.
More often than not, traitors make an argument defending their betrayal by the fact that we are all just animals. And animals are polygamous by nature. However, animals, unlike humans, do not have that property of the brain that allows it to feel and evaluate what is happening, creating an internal picture of the events that happened. Their impulses are beyond their control, and very much even by humans.
And generally speaking? How does the process of treason take place? You can’t just go and change with the first person you come across. Arousal begins with an emotional desire for sexual intimacy and attraction to a partner. The body gradually responds to the desire that has arisen. The genitals of both men and women are filled with blood. It seems to everyone for some reason that it is like a flash. R-times! – and you are already burning with desire. The main thing is to meet the “same” partner with whom you “skip”. Therefore, all betrayals are carefully thought out, both among men and women. The partner has already been taken into account before cheating.
Normally, arousal (attraction) increases as sympathy grows, and even sleeping with the cutest person takes some time. But a beautiful scheme, learned from TV or from romance novels, does not allow us to think soberly. A completely different rule works in my head – if he or she wants to now, he can calmly change me.
It is important to understand that all people always have a choice. Yes, people are polygamous. In general, all people, not just men or women. But people are also intelligent. In general, all people, not just men or women. We can control our instincts. If someone assures you that they cannot, or that “this is normal, I am a man / woman” – this means that in fact he simply does not love you. Because only one thing keeps us from betraying us – fear. We are afraid to hurt a loved one. And to the unloved – no, we are not afraid. We don’t care about his feelings at all.
What do we feel when we learn about cheating? Pain, resentment, anger. We want to cry. Imagine what to change is to rip your head off. So what are the excuses then? I ripped his head off because he doesn’t pay attention to me? I ripped her head off because she doesn’t care about me?
There are people who say that there are different betrayals, and you need to treat them differently. They say, it happens that two people merged in ecstasy, received a physiological release: she has an orgasm, he has an orgasm, but in fact a person loves another – the one with whom he has lived for more than one year, or maybe more than a dozen years. The person from whom he has children, with whom he has been together for many years. Then it is difficult to call it treason, it is a physiological release. In a drunkenness, by chance, the demon beguiled, damn it! Such things should not be considered treason, they need to learn not to notice, to forgive. But this is never a physiological release. This is, at least, a betrayal. And if it has arisen, then, as we have already considered above, it was prepared in advance.
Cheating is getting pleasure without me, a premeditated and deliberate crime. And what do we want for a person who has committed a crime against us?